Sulky class

October 17, 2009 by dalead

Last week-end I went with my art quilt friend Martha G. to Columbus, OH to attend a Sulky Teacher Certification training class. It was 3 full days jam packed with techniques, new products, meeting people and lots of laughs. I learned so many new things that my head is still byuzzing. Taught by Pat Welch (the BEST teacher ever), we had a pretty large class composed of people from PA, MD, OH, MN, MI, NE, KY & NY. Quite a diverse group and two mother-daughter teams!

Sulky GAVE us each a HUGE box of materials for each of the projects. I still haven’t unpacked it all into the studio but my SO said I looked like a little kid at Christmas as I was showing her all of the stuff inside. She had no clue what any of it was but she knew I was excited and very happy! She also had quite a good time regaling her work mates with the fact that I packed my sewing machine in my carry-on luggage.  Once I apprised her of the fact that my 11 year old machine was quite pricey when I bought it, she then understood why I didn’t want to have it tossed around with all of the checked baggage. I can replace my usual carry-on stuff but I cannot replace my Bernina 150 work horse.

Now for some studio time to play with all of our new toys & to develop class plans. Watch for some Sulky classes to be taught by Martha & I in PA & MD!

Garden Bench

August 21, 2009 by dalead

This is the best time of year for gardening. All the hard work of the spring has ended & most things are in maintenance mode. Except the weeds, they are very high but the bugs are also biting. ..The zucchini got destroyed by a squash vine borer, the banes of my gardener’s existence! However, the Brussels sprouts, cabbage, eggplants & tomatoes are all doing wondrously well. B. Sprouts are such a strange plant-the sprouts grow along a central stalk. I’ll post  a picture later.

Anyway, having had the last 3 large bushes taken out this spring, I had a very empty space right at the corner. I’d been wanting a bench for the school bus moms to have a place to sit but was looking for something that suited my taste & was on sale. Found it!!! Thank you Lowe’s! Attached is a picture of before & after.

bench area before

bench area beforethe new bench the new bench

Of course it was the most humid day of the summer that I had to put it together but I was leaving on a business trip & didn’t want to have the boxed bench hanging out in the carport. Directions said that 2 people would need an hour to put it together. Bah! One person did it in 30 min :-) Of course it’s heavy as heck so I had to drag it across the yard. Then I needed to experiment with placement-should it face the street? Which one (it’s on a corner). Finally I was satisfied & then planted the new perennials behind it. I love it. And I love the fact that it’s done! 

Mama Mourning Dove has returned. I think she’s a different one; the one who made the original 2 nests in my front porch planters has become accustomed to me & wouldn’t even move when I watered the plants around her. This newest one is still skittish & flies away when I go to “her” end of the porch. I wouldn’t care but they kill the plants. They are the quietest birds & have the most quiet babies I’ve ever seen. Then one day they fly away & it’s all over…until the next one comes along!

Art-Happy Dance

July 14, 2009 by dalead

Woo-Hoo. Yesterday I was contacted by a gallery in upstate NY who has chosen two of my pieces to be in an upcoming show.  I was/am still stunned-they were not the two pieces I had imagined they would choose, IF they chose anything at all!

Best of all my friends Beth & Norma also have pieces in the show-Beth has one piece & Norma has three. Makes the submission process worth while! “Bugs” & “Not So Black Hole” were chosen. “Bugs” is shown below but the other will have to be posted later.

"Bugs"

"Bugs"

Art-Or Not: Luhlin

June 20, 2009 by dalead

 I have been stalled in my resolution to build up my body of work. Due to re-financing the house & the surgery required last month (see cancer page), there has been very little time to create.

I was able to do a little demo of bobbin work with my PA Art Quilt Group which they appreciated. I’m planning the lecture we are giving in a month for the Hallam branch fo the public library-we have two hours to talk about art quilts!

So it’s raining today, teeming, pouring down. No chance of working outside. Yay!!!! The gift of a guilt-free day in the studio-or at least part of a day. I need to put the binding on the large Luhlin piece, a chore because I’m so pleased with the piece that I’m afraid to mess it up with a bad binding!

Large Luhlin in progress May 2009

Large Luhlin in progress May 2009

Luhlin is a comet that was first discoivered by a Chinese teenager. It has a large amount of un-burned gases surrounding it so it appears green AND it also appears to be flying backwards. I did a series of 6 12″ x 12″ journal pieces exploring different ways of expressing this. The large piece posted was submitted to the Brush Gallery for their show during the Lowell Quilt Festival. Not accepted but that’s OK. I’m in love with this piece and remain convinced that it has a bright future!

Bailey

June 20, 2009 by dalead
Bailey May 2009, 5 years old

Bailey May 2009, 5 years old

This is my Bailey. He is a husky/shepherd mix, NOT a wolf! He is all husky-high maintenance, noisy, runs as fast as he can as far as he can when asked to “Come”, and sheds like heck. It took us a while to learn to work together-he was/is so different from my first dog. We needed some assistance from Joy Freedman, a MD dog trainer who was a god-send in teaching us to communicate. (THANK YOU JOY!!!)

He came from VT, voluntarily surrendered when his then-owner needed surgery. He came to Miss Wendy, Raven’s doggie day care provider at that point and stayed with her until I had to put down my Travis. At that point, Bailey had been on several trial visits with potential adoptees  but he was always returned with no real specifics given as to why he couldn’t stay with that family. OK, I’m a sucker. He came home with us right after I finished chemo. He continued in day care with Miss Wendy until we left MA over Labour Day 2006.

There are so many stories about his adventures as an “escapee”. The best story is-there haven’t been any incidents in the year since we’ve been going to the off-leash dog park. We go at least 3 times a week and that allows him to run and play with his friends so that he’s not dying to run when we get home. Life is a heck of a lot easier for us both now that the dog park is open.

This weekend the dog park is off limits due to a hot air balloon festival. I took Bailey & Raven for a ride last night-I had to go to Target which was over near the dog park. The balloons were flying around & poor Boo-Boo was just beside himself. The sound of them, the “whoosh-whoosh” of the air as they fly, just freaks him out.  I honestly thought he’d be OK in the car but apparently not. It took him a while to settle down once we got home last night. These seem to be the only things he’s afraid of & I will be so glad when they are gone. Yes, they are lovely to look at but they sure mess up his park time!

My Frankie

June 20, 2009 by dalead

Frankie is now 5 years old, a long lanky orange & white boy who adores his mother. He is the male of the 3 kittens wwe rescued when they were 2 weeks old. They had been dumped behind an abandoned building the next town over from us in MA. When we brought them home, Frankie’s eyes were open  but his sisters eyes were still closed.

We bottle fed for a month before weaning them. Frankie would get so excited when the bottle got near that he could not latch onto the nipple. It took a little patience at each feed to get him started so I usually took him if I had help. My mother-in-law and her aunt helped us a lot when they came to visit; when Rachael was home she could be counted on to help as well. Once they were fed, they had to be cleaned, their bedding changed, more formula prepped and food/bms noted on their charts. I did at least 1 load of kitten laundry per day until they were potty trained.

Our vets were wonderful, we stopped in every 10-14 days to get a weight check on “the babies”. One of our vets told us that most babies get constipated or have diarrhea on teh Queen’s milk replacement formula, so weight checks were pretty important. Of course all business in the office would stop when we came in toting 3 little kittens. The staff would haul out the postage scale & the weight would get noted on their charts.  

Weaning was quite a different story. The week they were to be weaned I was on the phone with the vet’s office at least 3 times. All 3 were old enough to climb over the one being fed and try to knock the bottle out of his/her mouth. I was getting them used to kitten chow so the queen’s milk was mixed with mushy kitten chow. This mixture usually wound up all over me, all over them & usually on the floor for a 5 foot radius. My theory was that I smelled like the bottle to them so they were not cooperating with me!

I then had to leave town on business. Rachael experienced this first hand the first night I was gone and in the middle of it, decided she wasn’t having it. She then put down a bowl of kitten chow and a bowl of milk and said “Factory’s closed. This is how you eat now!” Presto-they were weaned! 

Frankie, however, still wasn’t ready to give up the bottle. Every night for 2 weeks at bedtinme, he’d climb on my chest & nurse on my neck. I wore a lot of scarves & turtlenecks those weeks.  He was being particularly mischevious one Friday afternoon, getting into everything in my office & tearing up paper. Fiunally I put him on my chest & called my mother. The sound of my voice soothed him to sleep and no more mischief, at least while he slept!

At the time, we had 4 adult female cats, none of whom wanted anything to do with the babies. In fact, my old dog Travis was more of a mother to Frankie than any of the cats. The girls really needed much less human attention than Frankie. Everyone wanted him, and we did not want 7 cats… so the babies went to live with Rachael’s parents. Frankie eventually got to the point where he was beating up one of his sisters so he came back to us.

I swear he is the reincarnation of my beloved cat Sylvester. He seems to think he’s half human & half dog. He loves to lie on my desk while I work-not good. We are having “space wars” at the moment: he gets up, lies down & I take him off. This happens regularly at least 8 times a day…

Anyway, here he is in all his glory, my Frankie:

Frankie May 2009

Frankie May 2009

Post Op 3 week mark

June 20, 2009 by dalead

Well, from 3 days post op to 3 weeks post op. The scar looks beautiful, most of the edema is gone & I skipped the post op check. Given that that would have involved a plane ride and a 2 hour drive, only to do it all in reverse to get home, I didn’t see the need. After all, I’ve been to this party before. If I thought there was anything wrong I would have been there in a heartbeat.

I have been very careful about obeying the post op restrictions-no lifting anything over 10 pounds for 2 weeks. That included my Frankie (see the Garden & Animals page for photos) & getting Raven into the car to go to the dog park. Honestly, it was kind of nice to say “Would you lift that for me please?” BIG change. 

Since, in the middle of all of this, I had to switch out computers per my company, I seem to have not retained the cupcake picture on the new one.  It’s on the home computer so I’ll have to re-send it to my laptop. ..another chore for later on this too rainy June Saturday!

My friend Diana is dealing with cancer in a difficult way-she’s not the patient but her mother & grandmother are. Totally different attitudes: Grandma (Abuelita) has cut her hair short in anticipation of beginning the standard A/C cocktail (Adriamycin/Cytoxan). She’s planning on getting a wig & will not appear outside without it OR being in full make-up. Go Abuelita, I say!

Mami on the other hand, is so depressed. The only thing that cheers her is her great grand child. Everything seems  so overwhelming & frightening, complicated by the fact that she’s in a new country and has mets from her primary site (non-small cell lung).  Who’s to say which one is right? Each patient deals with the diagnosis and treatment in her own way, as she brings her own attitude’s version of fight or flight. I was in total fight mode, willing to do whatever it took to kick cancer’s ass. In retrospect, I’m so glad I felt that way but distance has given me the ability to understand Mami’s attitude as well.  I’m hoping Diana can find that ability too, in the middle of caring for these women in her life.

Some garden pictures

June 1, 2009 by dalead

Spring as somewhat slow to come to PA this year. And I’ve been slow as well.  Now that I can’t do anything for a couple of weeks due to recovery from surgery, there’ll be a mad rush in mid-June to get everything else done! AND I have a fine crop of poison ivy by Miss Louise’s Memorial garden-although my friend Doreen & I have cooked up a plan for that.

newly planted bck veg garden

newly planted bck veg garden

This is the back garden, new this year, with bell peppers, a tomato (Mr. Stripey heirloom), eggplant, yellow beans, green beans & zucchini.

This was taken 2 weeks ago just as it had been planted. The other plants have taken hold quite well, as you’ll see in later posts.

Post-op Day3

June 1, 2009 by dalead

Hallelujah! The surgery is over & all is well. No tissue expander needed. There is a small incision that will heal nicely.  BTW-the last post I “forgot” to enable the picture of the cupcakes to show. It’s fixed now…

My sister & I got up at 3:30 AM to get to the hospital for 6 AM-we made it with time to spare. But because traffic from NH to MA can be unpredictable we thought it was better to leave plenty of time.  I was ready to go when they put in the IV but…not so fast. I’m a “difficult intubation” due to a small mouth. Yes, I know the sound that comes from it is not small but…so we had to discuss that with the anesthesiologist AND with the ER doc who came over to watch a “difficult intubation”.

My plastic surgeon is like a hummingbird so she came in & out a few times & then marked my chest for the surgery. Once that was done, the ER doc gave me an IV push (dose of medicine in through the IV) of Versed & we were off.

So now I know why I didn’t remember last time.  It was the dang Versed! My sister says I said “Good-bye” on the way out the door but I don’t even remember that. The time from the Versed until I woke up in recovery was completely lost. I prefer to meet the OR nurses, hear the chatter, listen to them check as they count everything. In other words, I want to know that they are ready for me. Totally missed all of that.

By 11 AM I was out the door & we were on our way to get lunch.  I faithfully took the post-op percocet every 4 hours as prescribed, for the first 24 hours. After that, I wanted to see how long I could go between doses.  We went shopping on Saturday, after which I needed a nap. Big surprise-not. On Sunday, no pain meds at all as I had to drive home from the airport. I did spend the rest of the evening in bed, watching mindless TV, guarded by the dogs. Today only 1 dose of Ibuprofen so far.

Victoria’s Secret & I have a date after the swelling goes down. Time to celebrate!

Equipment Failure, part 2

May 28, 2009 by dalead

OK, I have a twisted sense of humour. I admit it-it’s the only way to go! Attached is a picture of the zipper cupcakes I made for the knitting group I will miss during my travel to NH/MA. I couldn’t find my fine holed pastry tube so I had to settle for the thick lines produced by the frosting tubes found at the grocery store.

 

zipper cupcakes

zipper cupcakes

Why the zipper? I know that this will probably happen again, after all, I’m planningto live another 40 years. So even if this replacement lasts 20 years, I’ll need another.  A zipper would make it easy to my way of thinking.

I’m more looking forward to having this over with. I’m hoping that my favourite nurse Kathy will be in the Day Surgery suite. She is always positive & I so appreciate having positive people around me.   Plus, she was good to my sister the last time I was in having the chemo port removed. That counts for a lot to me!